Gay black men and their fathers?

i am just throwing this out how do black gay men deal with their fathers. i know the many things the black man has gone through and the fact that their son is a gay male upset some if not most of them. i was thinking about this when i hear steve harvey on the view talking about real men need women now putting all of his other drama out he brings up a major issue that black men look down on gay men which in my personally opinion a gay black man is by far more of a man and shows the 'idea" of a man better than any other black man can think of. please don't bring up taking care of your kids because i should not have to thank someone for doing their job, you are not supposed to be thanked for that in my opinion any way i really just want to ask how do gay black men relate to their fathers or male figure sin their life